Looking for an apartment, anywhere, can be a stressful, worrisome and aggravating task.  Searching for one in New York City, specifically Manhattan can be outright torment. A friend and I are currently looking for a 2 bedroom apartment in Manhattan as we would like to be roommates again. I cannot say his name, as he… Continue reading Apartment, in the city

The New York City Gay Men's Chorus Big Gay Sing 'Welcome to New York' with special guest Coro Gay Ciudad de México! This year the Big Gay Sing was extra special as the NYC crew welcomed the Mexico City guys to join them, and....WOW! It was INCREDIBLE. So many standing ovations, this group owned the… Continue reading NYCGMC Big Gay Sing 2017

This is the tale of my latest adventure. My entire family spent a long weekend in the mountains at Breckenridge and then the big event, My Sister Kristina's Wedding. A late season blizzard was supposed to take New York city by storm on Tuesday March 14. The day before that many businesses were telling their… Continue reading Winter Holiday 2017 & Kristina’s Wedding

01 March 2017, today marks 22 years since the world lost My Mother. Keri Marie Kruse Gavit was an incredible person, full of creativity, compassion, love, strength, courage...the list goes on for quite a while. Every year, on this day, I make it a point to remember all of the special memories I have of… Continue reading Remembering my Mom

My Uncle Harvey passed away a few days ago, and I am deeply saddened by it. Uncle Harvey was my dad's eldest brother, and they were very close. He was my godfather, and an overall wonderful person. Uncle Harvey took me, and my brother fishing when we were boys, we also went camping, and hunting… Continue reading Goodbye Uncle Harvey

I love Books. It is a dream of mine to own a home with a huge library, something akin to the one in Beauty & the Beast. My love affair with reading began when I was younger. My mother first taught me to read in kindergarten, the book was about a pig who liked to… Continue reading Books, Livres, Bücher, Libri

I recently returned from a trip to NYC for a couple of job interviews. Over the last year I have realized how much I have missed The City that Never Sleeps. Although Paris is my home, New York City is my crutch. On this trip I lined up two job interviews with two outstanding Non-Profit… Continue reading New Amsterdam, revisited

Being a student of history, I have always wanted to trace back my family line to discover more about where I come from. I have been able to trace my last name "Gavit" all the way back to 1440 when the name was "Gavey." Below is a crude sort of family tree I am working… Continue reading My Family Tree

Over the Holiday break, I was at my boyfriend's place enjoying the festivities and we went to one of his friends to ring in the new year. His friends (J & S) are a couple of great guys, and very sweet to me. When we arrived to their place, J told me to "Hold On" in… Continue reading The Ties that bind me

As 2016 comes to a close I want to wish everyone Happy Holidays and a Happy New Year. I am thankful for all of the incredible people in my life who have helped make this year so amazing. So much joy, and so much love helped in a year with so much sadness and hatred. 2017… Continue reading Joyeux Noël et bonne année